Man Doesn’t Consider His Pregnant Wife A Mom Yet, Refuses To Get Her A Mother’s Day Gift


Expectations can shift quickly during pregnancy, not just about parenting, but also about partnership, appreciation, and all the little ways people support each other.


Reddit user UTVols1557 found himself in hot water after telling his pregnant wife she didn’t “qualify” for a Mother’s Day gift because their baby hadn’t been born yet.


After an argument that led nowhere, he asked the internet what they thought about his firm stance and the reasoning behind it, and oh boy, did it provoke a wide array of opinions.


For many couples, milestones like Mother’s Day take on new meaning when a baby is on the way


Pregnant woman in green shirt sitting on bed, highlighting issue of recognition as mom and Mother's Day gift refusal.


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But not everyone agrees on when those celebrations should begin


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Husband refusing to get a Mother's Day gift for his pregnant wife, not considering her a mom yet.


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Man handing a gift to his surprised pregnant wife who he does not yet consider a mom for Mother’s Day.


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As people shared their take on the conflict, the man initially tried to defend his stance


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Comment emphasizing the physical and emotional toll of pregnancy and urging a man to recognize his pregnant wife as a mom with a Mother’s Day gift.


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Comment expressing frustration at a husband who doesn't consider his pregnant wife a mom and refuses a Mother’s Day gift.


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Screenshot of an online comment arguing that a pregnant wife is already a mother and should be recognized as such.


Man refuses to consider pregnant wife a mom and denies her a Mother’s Day gift despite expecting a baby.


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Some people thought he did nothing wrong


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Commenter disagrees with pregnant wife demanding a Mother’s Day gift from husband who doesn’t see her as a mom yet.


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Comment discussing a man who doesn’t consider his pregnant wife a mom and refuses to get her a Mother’s Day gift.


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Screenshot of a forum comment debating whether a pregnant wife should be considered a mom or get a Mother’s Day gift.


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Screenshot of a Reddit comment from a pregnant woman discussing her husband's refusal to celebrate Mother's Day.


Comment discussing a man who doesn’t consider his pregnant wife a mom yet or get her a Mother's Day gift.


Screenshot of a forum comment about a man refusing to get a Mother’s Day gift for his pregnant wife.


But in the end, the husband changed his mind


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