Relationships are the best. Imagine coming home to a surprise dinner, all your favorite dishes cooked lovingly by your partner. Afterwards, you enter your room to see it’s beautifully decorated to celebrate your success at work. Looks like a scene out of a movie, right?

While nice gestures are part of a relationship, they don't paint the entire picture. Partners need to put a whole lot of effort into day-to-day life as well. And sometimes they don't.

From neglecting to clean the sink post-shave to leaving dirty laundry around the house, husbands and boyfriends sometimes do things inefficiently. And while there’s not one correct way to do things, we at Bored Panda have put together complaints by women frustrated by their partner's incompetence at daily tasks.

#1 Husband's Bedside Table That I Am Making A Point Of Not Doing For Him. It's Already Been 2 Weeks

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#2 My Partner Borrowed My Car For A Few Days, And Gave It Back Like This

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#3 The Way My Fiance Leaves Peanut Butter Has Me Rethinking My Choices

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#4 My Husband Leaves Car Like That Every Single Time I'm About To Use It

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#5 Dog Destroyed Trim

I left my husband in charge of our dogs while the kids and I visited my family. He chose to stay at his brother's house and only let our dogs out once a day. Yesterday, he sent me this picture and proceeded to blame it on me.

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#6 This Is How My Husband Opens The Bread If I Don't Get To It First. Just Rips A Hole In The Bag And Leaves It Open Like This

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#7 My Husband, The Love Of My Life, Decided To Trim His Hair This Morning Before Leaving For Work

I am really tempted to just ignore this and use a bidet and bath faucet and see how long this stays here.

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#8 My Fiance Never Changes The Toilet Paper When He Finishes The Roll, So I Decided To Do The Same This Time. This Is What I Saw When I Went To The Bathroom The Next Time

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#9 My Boyfriend Refuses To Use The "Wash As You Go" Method When Cooking Dinner

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#10 My Husband Did This

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#11 My Husband Ate The "Roof" Parts Of My Mini Gingerbread Houses While I Was Waiting For The Rest Of The Parts To Set

We had a bunch of random cookies and broken bits from the same batch available. And yes, he knew the others were there. He also ate some of them but said the roof parts tasted better.

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#12 The Way My Husband Wraps Gifts

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#13 My Sister's Boyfriend Lost His Wallet Before Leaving To Go To His Mom's House. He Left The Living Room Like This After He Found His Wallet

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#14 My Fiance Has A Weird Habit Of Not Closing Drawers Or Cabinets

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#15 How Did I Not Notice My Boyfriend Does This Until Now?

I caught his 12-year-old doing this the other night, trying to fry eggs after school, and I had no chance of teaching him because he said, "This is what my dad does".

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#16 My Fiancé Leaves His Shoes On The Dresser

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#17 I Put My Phone To Charge At Night Before Bed. My Husband Unplugs It And Uses It Because He Always Breaks His Chargers

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#18 When The Hamper Is Right There

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#19 The Way My Boyfriend Ate This Pie

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#20 My Boyfriend Took A Bite Of All The Chocolates To Find The Caramel One. There Wasn't Any

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#21 My Husband Left Only One M&M In The Dish

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#22 This Is How My Boyfriend Leaves The Sink After He Shaves

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#23 My Boyfriend Fell Asleep While Baking Pizza. It Cooked For Nine Hours

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#24 My Partner Told Me They Would Have Chicken Noodle Soup Waiting For Me At Home Because I'm Sick. This Is What He Meant

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#25 I Asked My Boyfriend To Bake The Croissants For Our Dinner

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#26 When I Asked My Boyfriend To Bring Me Home Some Food From The Bar

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#27 My Husband Thinks This Is How You Should Get A New Trash Bag. Please Help Me Settle This Debate

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#28 I Called My Boyfriend From The Supermarket To Check If I Needed To Grab More Pads And He Said, "No, There's Loads Left"

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#29 Husband Keeps Putting His Shoes On Top Of My Shoes And Making Them Dirty

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#30 My Boyfriend Grabs A New Roll Before Finishing The Last One

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#31 My Husband Ate The Top Of The Banana Nut Bread

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#32 My Boyfriend Lovingly Insists On Cooking Dinner On Mondays But Ends Up Leaving All Of His Dishes And Mess Behind Because He Has To Leave For His Weekly Chess Meet-Up

Don’t get me wrong, I love that he’s willing to cook dinner. He just always underestimates how much time he’ll need to cook and eat, leaving me to clean up the carnage. Every Monday, it’s the exact same thing.
Normally, we clean up together. This week’s mess was, honestly, pretty mild. There are usually food bits, spices, and many other things scattered around.

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#33 The Hummus Containers My Boyfriend Put Back In The Fridge, Leaving A Little Bit For Later, I Guess

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#34 My Boyfriend Puts The Empty Packages Back In The Box

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#35 The 11 Smartphones That My Mom’s Boyfriend Has Broken In The Year They’ve Been Together. Some Of Them Were His, Some Were Hers, And One Of Them Was Even Mine

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#36 My Boyfriend Insists On Storing Leftovers In A Ziplock Bags. His Reasoning Is, "It Saves A Dish", Even Though They Have To Be Transferred To A Dish Later Anyway

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#37 When My Husband Loads The Dishwasher

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#38 The Way My Boyfriend "Cuts" The Butter

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#39 My Husband Took A Bite Out Of The Butter And Just Put It Back. I Told Him I Would Publicly Shame Him If He Did It Again After That Cheese Incident

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#40 My Husband Is Technologically Challenged

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#41 My Husband Puts This Much Food Back Into The Fridge To Avoid Doing The Dishes

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#42 My Husband Put This Butter Container Back In The Refrigerator

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#43 According To My Boyfriend, His Toothbrush Does Not Need To Be Changed

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#44 My Husband Scrapes The Soap With His Fingers

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#45 I Bought A Bag Of Candy And Saved It All Week For A Friday Night Treat. Apparently, Husband Had Already Opened And Left Me 8

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#46 My Partner Decided To Wash My Recently Purchased Japanese Knife In The Dishwasher

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#47 Husband Went Grocery Shopping Last Night And Didn’t Close The Freezer Door Correctly. He’s Done This Multiple Times With Multiple Reminders To Remember To Close The Freezer Door

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#48 When Your Husband Forgets To Set A Timer For Hard Boiled Eggs

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#49 My Boyfriend Made Lunch. Who Cuts Sandwiches Like This?

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#50 How My Boyfriend Wears His Socks. They Didn't Roll Down On Their Own, He Intentionally Does This

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#51 The Way My Fiancé Ate These Muffins

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#52 The Way My Boyfriend Cuts Avocados

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#53 My Husband Kills The Bugs And Then Leaves Them Because He Thinks It Will Keep The Other Bugs Away

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#54 My Husband Puts Food In The Sink

"It'll get to the trash eventually", which means he scoops it out of a water-filled sink after pushing some into the drain, and no, we don't have one of those grinders. It's even worse when he does it with rice.

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#55 Boyfriend Put His Drink On My Brand New Notebook

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#56 I Came Home To My Fiance Cooking The Cookie Dough Out Of Our Ice Cream

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#57 Why Is My Boyfriend Doing This?

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#58 Hubby Poured Cold Stock Into The Hot Chicken. I Guess It's Time For DoorDash