Dating Specialist Reveals Top Reason Women Stop Sleeping With Their Spouses

A dating expert, Dr. Sarah Hensley, has shared the main reason why women might stop being intimate with their husbands.

It's always interesting to hear from a dating expert, whether you're in a relationship or not.

Now, Dr. Sarah Hensley has opened up about the big reason women may lose interest in their husbands or long-term partners, sharing her insights in a popular TikTok video.

The comments section has seen a lot of activity with people sharing their thoughts.

One person commented: "Is it cause you end up having to parent your husband either because he is or acts like he is incapable of doing anything for himself?"

Another joked: "Just a joke, but its because she doesn't have to keep him from leaving anymore because she'll get half his stuff if he divorces?"

A third shared their personal experience: "I will tell you that my ex stopped caring about his personal hygiene. I love a man who smells good. I spent a fortune on wonderful colones—the ones that get my attention in a public space. Yes, we talked about it—he didn't care. Big turn off."

Another added their perspective: "It's always got to come down to 'how much' s** people are having. I'd rather stay single than have that kind of pressure again."

The dating coach, with a PhD in social psychology, revealed surprising details in a TikTok video.

She explains: "The primary reason why women stop having s** with their husbands is because they don't feel emotionally safe."

"The reason that they don't feel emotionally safe is because their attachment needs are not being met inside of their relationship."

Hensley adds: "Attachment needs our deepest needs inside of a romantic relationship, and if those things are not fulfilled we will not feel emotionally safe."

"Especially for women when there is a lack of emotional safety, they start feeling very unsafe giving their bodies to their partner, and they start to feel extremely un-attracted to their partner."

She further notes: "The anxious preoccupied their biggest need is love, affection and reassurance. So they need lots of reassurance every single day that you love them that the relationship is stable."

Hensley wraps up by saying: "For the dismissive avoidant woman, it's going to be space autonomy, and lack of criticism, aka peace and harmony inside the relationship."