In a video that she later removed but went viral on social media, the woman is depicted standing in a subway car.
The on-screen text declared: "Chivalry is in fact dead. What happened to the days when men offered women their seats???"
The video pans across the carriage, capturing several men seated and absorbed in their own activities.
Despite the original video being deleted, the discussion did not end.
Woman Declares 'Chivalry Is In Fact Dead' As No Men Offer Her A Seat On The SubwayThe debate flared up as other TikTok users re-shared the video through duets and stitches, sparking widespread controversy.
One TikTok user, @saraeatonontiktok, responded by saying: "Is it not what women have been fighting for? Equality. Screaming at the top of their lungs for independence."
"So, what do you need a man to get up and give you a seat? You should have been there on time like a man to find your own seat."
She also questioned the motives behind the original video, pointing out that it reflects how some women have selective expectations of men's behavior, while also criticizing the video's creator for recording strangers in public.
The debate quickly heated up in the comments section. One person remarked: "It's called chivalry. Only people with class would understand."
Another countered: "It's called equality. Only people with a brain would understand."
Many men also weighed in. One commented, "If a woman is elderly, disabled, VERY pregnant or otherwise physically unable to stand then I offer my seat. Otherwise, equality applies."
Another shared a similar view, writing: "My chivalry is enabled only for the PWDs [people with disabilities], elderly, and pregnant."
When Should You Give Up Your Seat On Public Transport?
Here are some tips for handling this type of social situation:
Woman Declares 'Chivalry Is In Fact Dead' As No Men Offer Her A Seat On The SubwayPriority Seating: Public transport usually has seats designated for the elderly, pregnant women, people with disabilities, and those accompanying young children.
If you are sitting in one of these priority seats and notice someone who fits these categories boarding, it is thoughtful to offer them your seat.
Stay Alert: Beyond the designated priority areas, keep an eye out for other passengers who may need a seat more urgently than you.
This group might include people not explicitly listed in the priority categories, such as those visibly struggling to stand, carrying heavy items, or appearing unsteady.
Extend a Courteous Offer: If you notice someone who looks like they could use a seat, offer it politely and be respectful of their decision.
Some individuals might choose to stand, particularly if their stop is approaching soon.
Woman Declares 'Chivalry Is In Fact Dead' As No Men Offer Her A Seat On The SubwayStay Mindful: Keep an eye on your environment, especially in crowded situations.
By offering your seat, you can help make someone's ride more comfortable and contribute positively to the communal travel experience.
